1 – Don’t worry too much about the particulars: favorite bands, type of food, what kind of bars, movies interests or books. Instead, take in the broad strokes — does he live in the same city? Is she a reader? Does he seem intelligent? Don’t become consumed with the idea that someone out there corresponds exactly to all your tastes and preferences.
2 – What’s actually important in evaluating a profile is its tone. You want to try and get a sense of what the person is like, which can be truly difficult. It’s a challenge for anyone to writing or read any dating profiles. It’s key to read between the lines to get a sense of whether the person seems well-adjusted — pleasant, friendly and reasonable, someone you would be drawn to if you met him or her in person.
Look closely for particular signs of bitterness. Also, insincerity: the person who claims to love his or her life and to be satisfied with everything in it. Why are they in a dating site to begin with? right? These behaviors suggest this person might have trouble being honest about his or her vulnerability.
3 – Ignore a person’s claims about his or her personality — “I have a sense of humor” or “I’m an optimist.” Remember that thing your best friend told you in a honest talk in relation to your ex or just yourself? Everyone has an opinion about themselves, and no one wants to hear the truth from others, sometimes it hurts but eventually you accept it. Not everyone around you has the same idea about how you behave.
A funny person, does not say he/she has sharp humor or that he/she is funny. A truly sharp sense of humor is easily spot, even for those who don’t have, they can’t help laughing of that one friend that knows how to be funny at every topic no matter how serious. And a funny person knows that there is no need to CLAIM that they are funny.
4 – No matter how well this girl or guy gets close to your dream, there’s still a lot you won’t be able to glean until you sit with him or her.
In this world of technologies is quite easy to look for those bad signs, how? Whether he makes eye contact, her tone when she speaks, how often the smiles. And that annoying habbit of nowadays, how much he/she constantly checks the phone, etc.
5 – In theses days most people, specially women, go directly to the relationship phase, like they already know the person and she as skipped 5 years into the future, a good future. A future on her mind. And there’s nothing worst than getting to close too soon no matter how perfect he or she appears. To become too attached suggests that you are projecting a fantasy onto the other person.
Getting to know another person, takes time and patience.